- fix relay-id check breaking group topics
- group -> pub and sub topics
- wildcard in subscription topic will be properly handled
- make sure on disconnect event only triggers when mqtt is changing
state from connected to disconnected, don't trigger every failed re-try
- replace receive-only mode with separate sub and pub topics
- some more build time settings (and some... questionable code to handle that)

- allow strings in mode (off, on, none)
- fixup type used for the mode to be am enum instead of int
  (todo: allow webui to accept strings?)
- some cli updates using new funcs

- gpio module now tracks the known providers (right now, hardware and mcp expander)
- refactored relay struct to use 'Provider' implementing setup,notify,change,boot instead of just BasePin actions
- refactored button module to use gpio provider instead of referencing types itself
- removed dual & stm code from buttons, migrate both to relay module
- added status notify and change callbacks for relayStatus (i.e. 'notify' when relay status was called, but not changed. and 'changed' when it did)  
- relays runtime configuration keys
- relay command now shows configured relays and current & target statuses
- refactor the code using relayStatus(0, blah) under LIGHT_PROVIDER check to use lightState instead
- remove rfbridge code form relay module. implement through a basic state listener in the rfbridge module, depend on RELAY_SUPPORT
- allow to bind rf codes to real relays
- drop tuya-specific lights provider, remove tuya code from relays and lights modules
- integrate tuya via relay listeners and providers, use lights custom provider
- implement channel transitions for tuya. disabled by default, and transition time and step are overridden to 2000 + 100. needs to be set to some value below the total time (i.e. `total transition time / step time == number of steps`, we need to figure out a correct time that serial comms could handle)
- lights custom provider (global, not per-pin) and state listeners
- remove lights code from relay module. implement through providers & listeners in the lights module, depend on RELAY_SUPPORT
- lights per-channel relay provider (unused atm), depend on RELAY_SUPPORT
- refactored channel transition - calculate step only once, make sure time + step values are sane, generate quick transitions with very small delay (10ms hardcoded) for transitions during OFF state i.e. we no longer waste 500ms (or whatever transition time is set to) on boot doing nothing
- transition time + step parameter for the lightUpdate
- report mask parameter for the lightUpdate
- minor fixes across the board

resolve #2222

- general conversion from .ino modules into a separate .cpp files
- clean-up internal headers, place libraries into .h. guard .cpp with _SUPPORT flags 
- fix some instances of shared variables instead of public methods
- tweak build system to still build a single source file via os environment variable ESPURNA_BUILD_SINGLE_SOURCE